Normally, we only think of men as studying advanced seduction psychology and techniques. Well, there’s a whole class of women who work on their seduction skills as well – in fact, seduction is the basis of their entire livelihood.
I’m talking about strippers and exotic dancers. And believe it or not, the advice I give you guys is almost identical to the advice I give to girls who are dancers. Now, strip clubs aren’t really my thing – as soon as you pay, you become a customer. And while I enjoy conversation, I don’t like yapping it up with a dancer and keeping her from her paid work. Read the rest of this entry »
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Attraction, Seduction, Dating
Most Men Are Deathly Afraid…
Most men don’t know the first thing about how to take things to a “physical” level with a woman. Here’s why:
Let’s say you’ve been out on a date with a woman, and you’re now back at your place, having an enjoyable conversation. You look over at her. She looks back at you. You want to kiss her. She knows that you want to kiss her. You know that she is the one with all the power. If you try to kiss her, and she pulls away, she might reject you forever. If you don’t try to kiss her, maybe it will happen later, or maybe she’ll even kiss you…
The risk of being rejected forever is so powerful and creates such fear that you decide to just “walk away” from the situation and hope something happens later.
Or, let’s say that you’ve been out with a woman a few times, and you have just kissed her for the first time. You know that she’s enjoying it. She knows that you want her. You’d really like to do more, but you’re afraid that if you try, you’ll be seen as “moving too fast”, or even worse… a “pushy pervert”.
You hate the idea of being rejected after you’ve invested all that time and come so far… So you decide to stop and hope that maybe things will “heat back up” later. Read the rest of this entry »
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Lifestyle
Ok guys, today I want to reveal a little secret about the seduction industry. A lot of guys think the seduction industry is about ebooks, CDs, website articles and workshops. I have news for you. It isn’t. These things aren’t even one percent of the industry. They’re not even a tenth of a percent.
The real market isn’t about Mystery, Neil Strauss, Lance, or Derek. The real market is about Lexus, Porshe, Mustang, and Mercedes. And no, I’m not listing the names of strippers here. I’m talking about automobiles. The biggest market built around seduction in the world in general – and the U.S. in particular – is the automobile market.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills, Attraction
I’ve been there. It seems like your brain shuts off and nothing that comes out of your mouth makes sense. You try everything in your power to be impressive and charming. She is just too damn hot! You are doomed from the start. Get used to it. If you want to date or even have a casual conversation with a very beautiful woman, let alone figure out how to make her want to sleep with you, you have to change your perspective a bit. Read the rest of this entry »
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Attraction
I have a lot of guys write me to say, “I know this girl who’s beautiful and smart and attractive. She and I are great friends, we have everything in common, and we get along perfectly… but she says that she’s just not attracted to me…”
Have you ever noticed that:
- The most attractive and interesting women seem to be attracted to men who don’t treat them very well?
- That the “nicer” you are to a woman the more she often seems to act like “just a friend” to you?
What’s going on here? Didn’t mom say to be “nice” to girls?
Here’s the deal. Women aren’t usually romantically attracted to “nice” guys. Women are attracted to men who are funny, confident, and mysterious. Good looks don’t hurt, but if you’re not 6′4″ tall and model-handsome, then you have to learn how to attract women with your personality. Read the rest of this entry »
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Reviews
Formhandle reviews The Game
Being from the world described in The Game, the book CAPTIVATED me. I’ve known Neil for almost 3 years, and met him in LA soon after he got to know Mystery. I never knew Neil before he was “Style” so I can’t attest to the drastic changes he’s made in himself since first stumbling on my web site, which over the years has become the center of the community (references for which saturate the book and permeate the core). I’ve known him almost solely as “Style the pickup artist”, and only later as “Neil Strauss the writer”.
I feel a very strong connection to many of the stories he details in The Game, even having only been present for a portion of their happenings, though being witness to almost all of them in one form or another. I know and have met just about every character in the book and it was an intense read, very surreal to me. I try not to judge people on their flaws, but the people throughout the book are as unique as he presents them and I feel that much closer to them now as acquaintances, peers, and friends. Read the rest of this entry »
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Dear Speed Seduction Sucker,
If you had an ounce of brains, you’d unsubscribe from this list.
In fact, if you were at all awake, you’d unsubscribe from all of the damn daily friendly “tips” and “secret filled” messages you get from us pick up advisors and gurus, because none of us guys, including me, give a diddly shit about you, and our stuff mostly doesn’t work anyway.
We all secretly get together and laugh at you, what an idiot you are, and how we can conspire to con you out of every last penny.
Truth.
So get the fuck lost.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Seduction, Dating
Today I am going to talk about the importance of being honest. Now alot of men seem to think that they should “hide” their intentions with a woman at first as proposed by indirect game and just open the woman with a casual opinion opener or neutral comment then seguay into barrage of negs, and cool stories thinking that she will somehow magically start to fall in their arms.
Not so! See a woman only wants to be teased by and will chase a man if he has “confidence” and “social proof” . You cannot be a geek with zero social value and have indirect game work. In otherwords the foundation for the effectiveness for indirect game is that she must first see you as ALPHA. Then you will have an affect on her self-esteem with negs and on her social value with teasing. She will also find your stories and DHV’s more interesting because they are coming from a “cool guy” who she wants to know.
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