Written by Seduction Tutor in Approaching, Pickup, Dating
Hey Man,
Did you know that most men approach the process of getting dates in a way that virtually guarantees that they will fail? I want to ask you something quickly:
Have you noticed that women seem to have a kind of «barrier» that they can put up when they’re talking to you? It’s like they have a sort of «sixth sense» that alerts them about a guy wanting a date… and it turns on an invisible force-field of doom. It really can be a pain in the ass.
Well, what if I told you that it was you that was turning the force-field on? What if I told you that it was you that could control it… and turn it off as well?
The bottom line is that I really do believe that you are the one that controls whether or not the «evil force-field» is turned on… or not. And the «trick» to knowing how to keep a woman from putting up the shield is actually very simple… once you understand it.
I want you to take a minute and read about the two basic ways that most men approach women… ways that fail almost every single time. If you follow this link, and read the entire page, you will learn these two basic approaches, and you’ll learn why they fail.
On this site you’ll also hear me talking about my Advanced Dating Techniques program, which you should get. Inside that program, I will teach you all about the «secret» triggers that a woman has, and how to use this knowledge to create massive attraction with any woman you want… and how to make sure her «evil force-field» never goes up in the first place…
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Approaching, Pickup, Flirting, Attraction
This week I would like to turn the tables around and try something a little bit different. Something that just might make you take a new perspective and think about things in a way you’ve never thought about before… something that just might stir you up enough to get you to take some action…
First, I’d like you to think about the last time you saw a really attractive woman… you wanted to go over and talk to her, but for whatever reason you just didn’t do it. I’m talking about a really hot woman.
Take your time if you need it. I’m not going anywhere. Good. Read the rest of this entry »
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Inner Game, Approaching
There’s a lot of talk about “approach anxiety” when is comes to approaching and meeting someone attractive. My personal belief is that we all too often have actually “rejected” ourselves before the potential meeting ever actually happens. This is tragic, because there is a simple yet effective way to make real progress from this kind of self-limitation.
As the title has already telegraphed, what we’re talking about here is training yourself how to see yourself as others see you… and then how to see others as they see themselves.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Approaching, Attraction
Most men hate the idea of “rejection”. I’m not talking about “don’t like the idea” or “wish it didn’t happen”… I’m talking hate here. The idea of walking up to a woman and having her reject you causes most men to instantly feel sick in the pit of their stomachs and literally feel a horrible combination of nervousness and confusion.
A guy can psych himself up for an hour to go talk to a woman, but when the moment comes to actually do it, everything changes. The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens, eyes dart back and forth, thoughts of rejection fill the mind, and eventually the pressure becomes too much to bare. Read the rest of this entry »
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Alright, so now you are mad confident, you walk the walk, you talk the talk (a bit), and you are ready to be a lady killer, right? Not so fast bud. Relaxed confidence will get you far – farther than anything else I’m going to teach you – but if you want to really make it work, you need to refine it.
Think of hunting. Going out exuding relaxed confidence is like spraying the field with buck shot. Sure, you’ll hit a lot of targets – it sure beats a slingshot – and you might even bring some down, but it’s not the most effective method.
You want a sniper rifle. You want to focus your efforts to a high degree, and take careful aim. You want to focus your relaxed confidence to make it more powerful.
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It’s a fact: If you want to score with hot babes, you’ve gotta be the master of your domain. You have to master your social skills.
It’s easy to believe that looks are all-important, but it’s WRONG. As Joseph Matthews, author of “The Art of Approaching Women”, says, “The single biggest, most limiting belief guys have that keeps them from succeeding is the belief that LOOKS MATTER.“
Much more important to women is how well you interact with others — men AND women alike. You can be the best-looking guy in the world, but if you can’t muster anything to say to a group of people, or don’t know how to hold their interest and make them WANT to get to know you, then you’re not going to attract women. Period.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Approaching, Pickup, Flirting
No matter how many cock blocks you avoid or loyal wingmen you have, some guys still strike out with the ladies at bars. Thankfully, Keys to the VIP’s seduction guru Chris Greidanus knows how to help.
Keys to the VIP is a new Comedy Network show in which two male contestants are placed in a club setting and must complete challenges — like making a girl laugh or getting her phone number — within a certain time limit. Four panelists, including Greidanus, watch the contestants on TV and select a winner based on his approach and overall attitude.
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Meeting a new woman can be a daunting task. Most guys have no clue how to do it, so they crash and burn, again and again. If you want to meet a new woman without running the risk of getting shot down you need a solid game plan. Use these 10 tips to start talking to women and getting numbers and dates in no time.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Approaching, Pickup, Dating
This may seem like an elementary statement but…You have to go where the women are! Too many guys cheat themselves out of meeting great women because they avoid the venues where they hang out. They go to sports bars over coffee shops, take golf lessons over Latin dance lessons, go to hardcore gyms over health clubs, they avoid malls, etc.
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Today we’re going to talk about tragedy. What a downer, but it’s gotta be done. We’re going to talk about The Tragedy of the Self-Defeating Man. Catchy title, this might not be so bad.
Something that tends to happen with ALL men – and especially those who haven’t had as much success with women – is they get stuck on ONE woman. I don’t mean they get trapped in a monogamous relationship that is unhealthy. That’s a different newsletter.
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