Before I ever learned how to attract women, I used to watch how those guys we call «Players»… would walk into a room, leave with the woman of their choice… and make it look so damn easy.

I used to think to myself that it would be so fantastic if I could do that. I figured that these guys must be «good looking» or charming… or have something… something I didn’t have. Later, after I learned the skill of meeting women, I realized that the most important thing I had been missing was knowing how to attract women.

Here’s the bottom line:

Anyone can learn to meet women. But if you don’t understand how to create attraction, then you will beat your head against the wall your entire life and still not have any success. The best way for you to learn how to create massive attraction is to read my downloadable eBook called «Double Your Dating».

I believe that you can learn how to create powerful attraction in women… and I believe you can learn it fast.

Talk soon,
David D.

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Let me ask you a question. What is “success” to you when it comes to women? If I asked you to give me a detailed explanation of exactly how your life would be if you had ultimate success with women, could you do it? Sure, most guys would say something like, “Success to me would be being able to walk up to any woman and get a date with her”… or “Success to me would be dating as many women as I wanted”… or “Success to me would be having a really sexy girlfriend”, etc.These are the kinds of answers I hear when I ask guys this question. But there’s a problem with these answers. None of them really mean anything.

If you learn how to approach any woman and get a date, you’ll soon find that you don’t know what to do once you’re actually out on the dates… how to take things to a physical level, how to kiss her, etc… If you start dating several women at a time, you’ll quickly realize that it’s a major challenge to juggle all of those relationships and maintain a happy life… If you find a really sexy girlfriend, there’s a good chance that she’ll have a whole bunch of personal issues and problems that you never anticipated…

Read more:  How To Get What You Want From Women

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This week I would like to turn the tables around and try something a little bit different. Something that just might make you take a new perspective and think about things in a way you’ve never thought about before… something that just might stir you up enough to get you to take some action…

First, I’d like you to think about the last time you saw a really attractive woman… you wanted to go over and talk to her, but for whatever reason you just didn’t do it. I’m talking about a really hot woman.

Take your time if you need it. I’m not going anywhere. Good. Read the rest of this entry »

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“You can’t bore a woman into feeling attracted to you…”

I realize that this may sound like an obvious statement, but judging by the emails that I get week in and week out, maybe it’s not as obvious as it might seem to some guys. In fact, when I think back on my own experiences with women, I am definitely guilty of trying to bore women into feeling attracted to me… So, what do I mean by this silly sounding statement?

Well, let’s start with some ideas that I hear in one form or another all the time:

• “I was a perfect gentleman on our date, but she didn’t call me back, and I can’t reach her…”
• “I don’t want to use any ‘techniques’ with women because I feel like that would be ‘manipulating’ her…”
• “I want a girl who will like me for who I am…”
• “I give her everything she wants, take her out, buy her things, and I don’t understand why she doesn’t feel the same way towards me that I feel towards her…”
• “She tells me that she only likes me as a friend, then she goes out with these guys who treat her like crap instead of going out with a guy like me that would treat her wonderfully and give her everything she wants…”

And the list goes on and on… Read the rest of this entry »

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I get a lot of emails from guys who read my newsletter that say things like… “I’m sure what you’re saying is right, but I don’t want to be a jerk or an asshole to women…” or “I have seen what you’re talking about happen all my life, but I’m a ‘nice guy’ and I want women to like me for me…” and “This doesn’t make sense…”

For most of my life, I was the nice guy of nice guys. As a matter of fact, when I first made the decision to learn how to be successful with women, this actually created an obstacle for me. Let me explain…

Because I believed that “being a nice guy” must be the way to success with women, I actually couldn’t even perceive any other way. In other words, I could see a situation where a woman was attracted to a mean, abusive guy and think to myself that either she must be screwed up in the head, or that the guy must be really nice to her the rest of the time. Read the rest of this entry »

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You’ve probably noticed that I don’t talk about the idea of “romance” very often. There’s a good reason for this. I think that most guys use romance in completely the wrong way, and in the process screw up their chances with the woman that they are interested in.

I’m going to take some time here to talk about my personal perspective on romance, how it is misused, and how to use it to really make a woman feel attracted to you.

Most guys make one of two main mistakes when trying to be “romantic”:

1. They try to use romance to create attraction.
2. They use too much romance, thinking that more must be better.

Let me ask you this… What does romance mean to you? I’m serious. Think about it for a minute. Does romance mean gifts and flower? Does it mean fancy dinners? Does it mean candles and soft music? Read the rest of this entry »

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Here’s How To Act When You “Like” A Woman…

I get a lot of questions from guys asking all kinds of questions about how to behave around women. In fact, this might be one of the areas that guys want to know the most about.

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking over the past year or so about the concept of being “cool”. In other words, I’ve been watching people (myself included) to see if I could figure out why some people are considered “cool” while some are considered “not-so-cool”… and more importantly, how to use this idea to have more success with women.

So what is a “cool guy”? And what is it about a guy who’s “cool” that makes women feel more attracted to him than an “uncool” guy?

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I’ve been teaching men how to become more successful with women and dating for several years now… and one “problem scenario” just keeps coming up over and over… and over and over and over again…

…and it really amazes me.

I’m going to refer to it as “The Genius Failure Paradox“. “The Genius Failure Paradox” is the tendency for unusually intelligent men to have very low levels of success with women and dating.

After contemplating this particular paradox, discussing it, and working on it for an awesome amount of time, I’d like to share my thoughts about it with you. I assume that if you’ve read this far, then you probably see yourself as smarter than the average guy. You know that you’re a little different than other guys.

You probably realized at a young age that you saw things differently and thought differently than others in school… And you’ve probably realized that your smart mind gives you an advantage over others in many areas of life…

Your smart mind gives you a particular type of advantage that can be very, very powerful in life: you’re usually right. Smart people get used to being “right” because they usually are right. And when you’re right more often than others, you can get ahead in many situations.

But unfortunately, this smart mind of yours can actually be worse than useless when it comes to a key area of life: women and dating. Read the rest of this entry »

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This week I’m going to do something a little bit unusual… First, I’m going to ask you to consider something, then I’m going to give you some homework. This week is all about action!

Here’s the thing I want you to consider first:

I was reading an article on AOL titled “What’s Wrong With Nice Guys?“… here’s a little quote from the article:

“…Do Women Date Naughty Guys but Marry Nice Ones? This notion sounds an awful lot like the irritating good-girl/bad-girl distinction that men continue to make. Still, it does contain a nugget of sense. Since women truly are conditioned to be “good girls,” sometimes we feel uncomfortable with or guilty about that pure burning “I must have him!” feeling. That’s why we sometimes seek out a bad boy to serve as the object of these desires, says Cleveland psychotherapist Belleruth Naparstek, creator of the Health Journeys series of guided imagery tapes. “In order for the deliciousness of pure lust to be ‘okay,’ it has to be for the symbolic bad boy who has nothing to do with the rest of your life. With him, you can crank up your animal impulses, worry-free,” she
says…“

Interesting, isn’t it? Read the rest of this entry »

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The worst problem guys have is that they can’t seem to overcome their hesitation, fear, and serious attitude around women. The problem is, we don’t have the right people to model and copy – guys who are just naturals with women.

We’ve all known that guy from school or work who just seemed to get lots of women effortlessly, without lines or routines or seduction formulas. This guy was just, well, a Natural with women and we envied his seemingly magic talent. Another group of men that has an uncanny success with women is The Charismatic. Such men possess a raw charisma that shines through in group situations.

So the question is, what’s the difference between true Naturals and Charismatics, and how do you incorporate the secrets and skills of one or the other… or both? Read the rest of this entry »

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