We’ve mentioned this a lot, but now the hammer drops. You can’t be boring! There is no greater sin when you’re trying to attract beautiful women.

In fact, this is the number one cause of nice guy frienditis. It’s not that women don’t like nice guys – oftentimes those let’s-just-be-friends have some sincerity in them – it’s that nice guys aren’t exciting. They’re predictable.

And let’s face it – almost everyone will pick exciting over pleasant every time. Guys too. How many sites are set up devoted to the hotness of Laura Croft? How many are set up exalting the attributes of Jane Austen heroines? Have you ever even had the patience to finish a Jane Austen novel?

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I’d like to talk about a concept that is rather difficult for most men to “get”. Ironically, it’s a concept that’s rather easy to understand, but because it’s so illogical and “counter intuitive” it’s also easy to miss entirely. It’s understanding what attracts women sexually.

And what I’m about to share with you took me literally years to figure out… even though it was right in front of my face the whole time.

When I first decided to get this area called “Women and Dating” handled in my own life, I did what I think most guys do… I thought a lot about it, I read a lot about it, and I asked a lot about it.

I’ve spent a lot of time studying psychology and human behavior, because it fascinates me… and I figured that all of my understanding about how people worked would really give me an advantage in this quest I had started. And since I think I’m pretty smart, I figured that this would be something that I’d get figured out rather quickly.

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Alright, so now you are mad confident, you walk the walk, you talk the talk (a bit), and you are ready to be a lady killer, right? Not so fast bud. Relaxed confidence will get you far – farther than anything else I’m going to teach you – but if you want to really make it work, you need to refine it.

Think of hunting. Going out exuding relaxed confidence is like spraying the field with buck shot. Sure, you’ll hit a lot of targets – it sure beats a slingshot – and you might even bring some down, but it’s not the most effective method.

You want a sniper rifle. You want to focus your efforts to a high degree, and take careful aim. You want to focus your relaxed confidence to make it more powerful.

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I want to talk to you about a topic that is always on the minds of men… It’s the topic of paying for things for women. This includes paying for drinks and dinners, buying her gifts and taking her out to shows. The question is: “Should I pay?”

Most guys feel obligated to pay if they go out with a woman on a date. Most guys feel compelled to buy women gifts, flowers, etc. and “take women out” to “show them a good time”.

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It’s a fact: If you want to score with hot babes, you’ve gotta be the master of your domain. You have to master your social skills.

It’s easy to believe that looks are all-important, but it’s WRONG. As Joseph Matthews, author of “The Art of Approaching Women”, says, “The single biggest, most limiting belief guys have that keeps them from succeeding is the belief that LOOKS MATTER.“

Much more important to women is how well you interact with others — men AND women alike. You can be the best-looking guy in the world, but if you can’t muster anything to say to a group of people, or don’t know how to hold their interest and make them WANT to get to know you, then you’re not going to attract women. Period.

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You know why most guys can’t get dates? Because they try to get dates.You think I’m going to talk to you about some Buddhist you-can’t-get-what-you-most-want thing here, and I am, in a way. Just not the way you expect it.

Listen, if you set yourself up in a “date” situation, you’re setting yourself up for failure. You’re giving her an opportunity to say no. Even if you get the “yes,” you are setting yourself for an awkward encounter.

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Meeting a new woman can be a daunting task. Most guys have no clue how to do it, so they crash and burn, again and again. If you want to meet a new woman without running the risk of getting shot down you need a solid game plan. Use these 10 tips to start talking to women and getting numbers and dates in no time.

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What do you say when you don’t say anything? Everything.

We dance around this topic all the time, but it’s ready for the spotlight: body language. This is the most important thing not just when dealing with women, but with communication period. Nothing else even comes close.

Wonder why that thick-as-a-post jock got all the women when charming funny nervous sitcom-character-in-waiting guy got nothing in high school? Body language.

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Here’s a somewhat different way of attracting and meeting women. Yea — this is a tip post — a simple hook up tip.

The Unmask Method

How does it go exactly?

Well, according to this article I came across, you and your mate should…

One, use an opener that’s untrusive and un-alarming. Something like, “Hi, do you mind if we sit with you at this table until our other friend gets here? She’s running late for some reason.” Of course, it should be in a venue that’s somehow packed and would give you a reason to ask that from these women, okay?

Two, once seated you will act as if you and your mate had no intention of starting a conversation with the two women. Keep an open ear to what they are talking about but continue talking to your mate about other things.

Three, after a moment or two you should…

Move a little closer to the girl nearest to you and lean in. With a smile, look her straight in the eye and say: “Okay, I have a question for you. Imagine you were sitting over there at the bar and you saw two girls, like yourselves, sitting at a table like this one. Then, you saw two guys like us come over like we did, sit down and start talking to those girls. What would you think?”

From my point of view, this simple question has the potential to be effective. It’s a situational question that will provide an avenue for people in that table to engage in a conversation that somehow highlights the opinion of the other person and not your own. A girl will find it flattering since it somehow shows that you appreciate her mind.

That, my friend, is how The Unmask Method works.

Go on. I know you’re dying to try it. Just make sure you’ll come back and let me know how it goes. Heehee.

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That doesn’t make much sense, does it? By now you should be getting used to humans not making much sense.

This all comes from social pressure. No one wants to look stupid. Everyone wants to be the coolest guy in the room. And when you stand up in front of people, you give yourself the chance to FAIL.

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