Written by Seduction Tutor in Flirting, Dating
It’s hot: The Linear Dating Model, 10 Reasons Why Knights Are Dead
I get a lot of guys who write in to ask me how to behave around women. Many of those questions focus on the first meeting or the first date. I thought I’d devote one entire newsletter to a concept that I feel is vital to understand if you’re wondering how to behave around a woman you’ve just met.
A Mistake Almost Every Guy Makes…
I’ve noticed a key difference between the way men and women act when they meet a “potential mate”. Women usually act in a way that can be characterized like this:
“You’re interesting to me. I’d like to get to know you better, and we can see where this goes.”
Men usually act in a way that can be characterized like this:
“I am so interested in you that I’m nervous. In fact, I’m already thinking of you as a potential girlfriend or wife… or at least a one-night stand.”
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Approaching, Pickup, Flirting, Attraction
This week I would like to turn the tables around and try something a little bit different. Something that just might make you take a new perspective and think about things in a way you’ve never thought about before… something that just might stir you up enough to get you to take some action…
First, I’d like you to think about the last time you saw a really attractive woman… you wanted to go over and talk to her, but for whatever reason you just didn’t do it. I’m talking about a really hot woman.
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Normally, we only think of men as studying advanced seduction psychology and techniques. Well, there’s a whole class of women who work on their seduction skills as well – in fact, seduction is the basis of their entire livelihood.
I’m talking about strippers and exotic dancers. And believe it or not, the advice I give you guys is almost identical to the advice I give to girls who are dancers. Now, strip clubs aren’t really my thing – as soon as you pay, you become a customer. And while I enjoy conversation, I don’t like yapping it up with a dancer and keeping her from her paid work. Read the rest of this entry »
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills, Pickup, Flirting, Dating
Great Post About Really Weird Home Business Ideas
Most of us have endured some silences in our relations with women we wish hadn’t happened. Well, first, you don’t have to be scared of silences, because they can be helpful. And second, there are ways to get a sparkling conversation going from next to ZERO material.
Let’s Take a Moment to Look Left
Brief related tangent time: one question I get asked a lot is “What should I talk about?”. Sure, now you know how you’re supposed to talk, but so many guys get stuck on what to talk about. After all, those dead silences are murder for attraction, right?
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Pickup, Flirting, Seduction, Dating
You remember youth, right? The magical freedom, no responsibility, all you ever had to do was play? Sure, the parts we like to remember. There’s plenty of things we’d just as soon forget.
Think back to your first crush. Did it end well? Probably not. You didn’t know what you were doing, neither did she, and those awkward moments don’t play out in good ways. In fact, whether you know it or not, those initial failures are the true cause of all your future ones. How?
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It’s a fact: If you want to score with hot babes, you’ve gotta be the master of your domain. You have to master your social skills.
It’s easy to believe that looks are all-important, but it’s WRONG. As Joseph Matthews, author of “The Art of Approaching Women”, says, “The single biggest, most limiting belief guys have that keeps them from succeeding is the belief that LOOKS MATTER.“
Much more important to women is how well you interact with others — men AND women alike. You can be the best-looking guy in the world, but if you can’t muster anything to say to a group of people, or don’t know how to hold their interest and make them WANT to get to know you, then you’re not going to attract women. Period.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Flirting, Attraction, Seduction, Dating
You know why most guys can’t get dates? Because they try to get dates.You think I’m going to talk to you about some Buddhist you-can’t-get-what-you-most-want thing here, and I am, in a way. Just not the way you expect it.
Listen, if you set yourself up in a “date” situation, you’re setting yourself up for failure. You’re giving her an opportunity to say no. Even if you get the “yes,” you are setting yourself for an awkward encounter.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Approaching, Pickup, Flirting
No matter how many cock blocks you avoid or loyal wingmen you have, some guys still strike out with the ladies at bars. Thankfully, Keys to the VIP’s seduction guru Chris Greidanus knows how to help.
Keys to the VIP is a new Comedy Network show in which two male contestants are placed in a club setting and must complete challenges — like making a girl laugh or getting her phone number — within a certain time limit. Four panelists, including Greidanus, watch the contestants on TV and select a winner based on his approach and overall attitude.
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Meeting a new woman can be a daunting task. Most guys have no clue how to do it, so they crash and burn, again and again. If you want to meet a new woman without running the risk of getting shot down you need a solid game plan. Use these 10 tips to start talking to women and getting numbers and dates in no time.
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What do you say when you don’t say anything? Everything.
We dance around this topic all the time, but it’s ready for the spotlight: body language. This is the most important thing not just when dealing with women, but with communication period. Nothing else even comes close.
Wonder why that thick-as-a-post jock got all the women when charming funny nervous sitcom-character-in-waiting guy got nothing in high school? Body language.
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