For a while now I’ve been wondering why some women always make eye contact and hold it longer than others, and in most cases, the women who fail to maintain eye contact are the best looking.
Each woman is unique, so their reasons for not maintaining eye contact could be any of a variety of things. However, after a lot of thought and research I’ve found out why these “dimes” or perfect 10’s tend to make eye contact much less than other women.
Read on and be enlightened.
When you want to attract more females, believe it or not, the best way is to already have females at hand. What? You say, to get females I have to have females?
Not necessarily but that is the fastest way. You see women are inherently attracted to other women from the standpoint of comfort, trust and safety. If any woman would share your company then other women watching are immediately attracted to you and believe you provide one if not all three of those qualities. Besides, would you argue that a guy is a “ladies man” if you saw him with a hot chick? No, of course not and yes, sisters count.
No matter how good the conversation is going, it must end sometime. Either she has to go or you have to go or you just feel you can’t keep it up at the same heights anymore and need to stop before you stall (good move). So what are the best ways of closing? A close by the way is not a “Bye, it was nice meeting you”, you’ll have to extract something out of your interaction with the girl, either her phone-number, a promise for a new meeting, a kiss, better yet - all of those things :). Otherwise you have just wasted your time with her. Remember, your time is important, so certainly, if you’re there talking to her, its an investment in her! Here are a few examples on how to close.
It’s been over four years now since I first released the original Seduction Science System, and since then THOUSANDS of truth-seeking guys have used my system to explode their success with beautiful women.
So I decided to RE-DO the complete system into an audio version, and work in all the NEW stuff that I’ve learned over the past few years.
And now I’ve released an electronic book version for INSTANT access.
Today you will get a taste of what you already know and a little bit more.
Whether you are approaching young college chicks or cougars or MILFs each MAN is as different in his approach as every WOMAN that he is approaching so the combinations for chemistry are endless. Men and woman are like Lock & Key and sometimes the key fits better than others.
Something that is sure to oil up those locks is basic FUNDAMENTALS that get her attention and increase your chances of a second meeting - a date. Listed are 5 individual ways that you can use to approach a female and hope that it goes your way.
Here’s a somewhat different way of attracting and meeting women. Yea — this is a tip post — a simple hook up tip.
How does it go exactly?
Well, according to this article I came across, you and your mate should…
One, use an opener that’s untrusive and un-alarming. Something like, “Hi, do you mind if we sit with you at this table until our other friend gets here? She’s running late for some reason.” Of course, it should be in a venue that’s somehow packed and would give you a reason to ask that from these women, okay?
Two, once seated you will act as if you and your mate had no intention of starting a conversation with the two women. Keep an open ear to what they are talking about but continue talking to your mate about other things.
Three, after a moment or two you should…
Move a little closer to the girl nearest to you and lean in. With a smile, look her straight in the eye and say: “Okay, I have a question for you. Imagine you were sitting over there at the bar and you saw two girls, like yourselves, sitting at a table like this one. Then, you saw two guys like us come over like we did, sit down and start talking to those girls. What would you think?”
From my point of view, this simple question has the potential to be effective. It’s a situational question that will provide an avenue for people in that table to engage in a conversation that somehow highlights the opinion of the other person and not your own. A girl will find it flattering since it somehow shows that you appreciate her mind.
That, my friend, is how The Unmask Method works.
Go on. I know you’re dying to try it. Just make sure you’ll come back and let me know how it goes. Heehee.
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That doesn’t make much sense, does it? By now you should be getting used to humans not making much sense.
This all comes from social pressure. No one wants to look stupid. Everyone wants to be the coolest guy in the room. And when you stand up in front of people, you give yourself the chance to FAIL.
“Nice shoes. Want to have sex?”
Aaah, you’ve probably heard that one — hopefully not said it, but picked it up from the thousands of websites that list the best and worst pick up lines.
People love poking fun at pick up lines, if only to make such a potentially embarassing situation into something more funny and less intimidating. In fact, some men will intentionally use a very cheesy pick up line to make a girl laugh.
How many times have you seen the nice guy lose out to a bad boy? How many times has the player swooped in out of nowhere and ate all the play? Why do women gravitate to him and what is he really?
Can anyone be a bad boy?
Is there a ritual you must go through to become a bad boy so women can recognize you? Personally I have never been to “bad boy” school or even heard of one, but I have been the bad boy many times and have been beat out by bad boys myself.
First let us dispel the myth of what the bad boy is not. In the days of old, the bad boy was the tattooed biker with the Harley and the unshaven 8 o`clock shadow at 6 am in the morning. Today the bad boy is as diverse as the women he is bedding.
Ok, remember in some of my past newsletters I’ve told you that there are no magic bullets – there are no amazing pick-up lines that will get you the girl? Good. I mean it. I really do. Now let’s work on those lines.
Seriously, WHAT you say isn’t half as important as HOW you say it. Still, it can only help if you are PREPARED. When you first start working on your flirting, unless you are Joe Cool, you are going to get NERVOUS. That’s alright, it’s just a fact. Even the best sometimes get nervous in front of a beautiful woman.
