Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills
Storytelling… one of the most natural forms of human communicating. Relating the day’s events, sharing our lives with others, letting people know where we’ve been and where we’re going. From short stories about your drive home yesterday or most recent adventure to the cell phone store, to long stories about your travels abroad or something that changed your life…
Most people’s stories are boring most of the time. This is a shame.
Yet sometimes you will meet a captivating, damn amazing storyteller, with fascinating, engaging stories that make you love talking to that person and hearing about his adventures. Even regular events sound like epic struggles and dramatic escapades. People love listening to those people, and want to be those people.
Let’s explore the art of storytelling. If you don’t have much practice telling stories, it’s usually pretty quick to get up and running telling basic stories that are good enough to keep others engaged.
Here’s some rules to make your stories great. Of course, you must choose your content well, because what you say says a lot about you. And be sure that the message of your story communicates good things about you. We’ll cover that in a future newsletter. Today, let’s be interesting… Here’s how to make your story stories electric.
Read more “The Rules of Storytelling“…
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills, Attraction, Dating
“You can’t bore a woman into feeling attracted to you…”
I realize that this may sound like an obvious statement, but judging by the emails that I get week in and week out, maybe it’s not as obvious as it might seem to some guys. In fact, when I think back on my own experiences with women, I am definitely guilty of trying to bore women into feeling attracted to me… So, what do I mean by this silly sounding statement?
Well, let’s start with some ideas that I hear in one form or another all the time:
- “I was a perfect gentleman on our date, but she didn’t call me back, and I can’t reach her…”
- “I don’t want to use any ‘techniques’ with women because I feel like that would be ‘manipulating’ her…”
- “I want a girl who will like me for who I am…”
- “I give her everything she wants, take her out, buy her things, and I don’t understand why she doesn’t feel the same way towards me that I feel towards her…”
- “She tells me that she only likes me as a friend, then she goes out with these guys who treat her like crap instead of going out with a guy like me that would treat her wonderfully and give her everything she wants…”
And the list goes on and on… Read the rest of this entry »
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Women are sick of boring conversations with men. They have had the same one over and over and over. If you can be different, you will stand out hugely, and quickly generate attraction. To be an interesting conversationalist you just need to follow a few simple rules. Read the rest of this entry »
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills, Attraction, Lifestyle
Here’s How To Act When You “Like” A Woman…
I get a lot of questions from guys asking all kinds of questions about how to behave around women. In fact, this might be one of the areas that guys want to know the most about.
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking over the past year or so about the concept of being “cool”. In other words, I’ve been watching people (myself included) to see if I could figure out why some people are considered “cool” while some are considered “not-so-cool”… and more importantly, how to use this idea to have more success with women.
So what is a “cool guy”? And what is it about a guy who’s “cool” that makes women feel more attracted to him than an “uncool” guy?
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I’ve been teaching men how to become more successful with women and dating for several years now… and one “problem scenario” just keeps coming up over and over… and over and over and over again…
…and it really amazes me.
I’m going to refer to it as “The Genius Failure Paradox“. “The Genius Failure Paradox” is the tendency for unusually intelligent men to have very low levels of success with women and dating.
After contemplating this particular paradox, discussing it, and working on it for an awesome amount of time, I’d like to share my thoughts about it with you. I assume that if you’ve read this far, then you probably see yourself as smarter than the average guy. You know that you’re a little different than other guys.
You probably realized at a young age that you saw things differently and thought differently than others in school… And you’ve probably realized that your smart mind gives you an advantage over others in many areas of life…
Your smart mind gives you a particular type of advantage that can be very, very powerful in life: you’re usually right. Smart people get used to being “right” because they usually are right. And when you’re right more often than others, you can get ahead in many situations.
But unfortunately, this smart mind of yours can actually be worse than useless when it comes to a key area of life: women and dating. Read the rest of this entry »
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills, Attraction, Lifestyle
The worst problem guys have is that they can’t seem to overcome their hesitation, fear, and serious attitude around women. The problem is, we don’t have the right people to model and copy – guys who are just naturals with women.
We’ve all known that guy from school or work who just seemed to get lots of women effortlessly, without lines or routines or seduction formulas. This guy was just, well, a Natural with women and we envied his seemingly magic talent. Another group of men that has an uncanny success with women is The Charismatic. Such men possess a raw charisma that shines through in group situations.
So the question is, what’s the difference between true Naturals and Charismatics, and how do you incorporate the secrets and skills of one or the other… or both? Read the rest of this entry »
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Normally, we only think of men as studying advanced seduction psychology and techniques. Well, there’s a whole class of women who work on their seduction skills as well – in fact, seduction is the basis of their entire livelihood.
I’m talking about strippers and exotic dancers. And believe it or not, the advice I give you guys is almost identical to the advice I give to girls who are dancers. Now, strip clubs aren’t really my thing – as soon as you pay, you become a customer. And while I enjoy conversation, I don’t like yapping it up with a dancer and keeping her from her paid work. Read the rest of this entry »
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills, Attraction
I’ve been there. It seems like your brain shuts off and nothing that comes out of your mouth makes sense. You try everything in your power to be impressive and charming. She is just too damn hot! You are doomed from the start. Get used to it. If you want to date or even have a casual conversation with a very beautiful woman, let alone figure out how to make her want to sleep with you, you have to change your perspective a bit. Read the rest of this entry »
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Dear Speed Seduction Sucker,
If you had an ounce of brains, you’d unsubscribe from this list.
In fact, if you were at all awake, you’d unsubscribe from all of the damn daily friendly “tips” and “secret filled” messages you get from us pick up advisors and gurus, because none of us guys, including me, give a diddly shit about you, and our stuff mostly doesn’t work anyway.
We all secretly get together and laugh at you, what an idiot you are, and how we can conspire to con you out of every last penny.
Truth.
So get the fuck lost.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills, Pickup, Flirting, Dating
Great Post About Really Weird Home Business Ideas
Most of us have endured some silences in our relations with women we wish hadn’t happened. Well, first, you don’t have to be scared of silences, because they can be helpful. And second, there are ways to get a sparkling conversation going from next to ZERO material.
Let’s Take a Moment to Look Left
Brief related tangent time: one question I get asked a lot is “What should I talk about?”. Sure, now you know how you’re supposed to talk, but so many guys get stuck on what to talk about. After all, those dead silences are murder for attraction, right?
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