As you get better at talking to women, you’ll discover they set up hurdles to see how you handle them. Learn the right way, and not only will you be closer to where you want to be – you’ll become more attractive in the process.
Roadblocks
We’re going to talk about some roadblocks now. You may have the attitude and the moves – but there are always going to be twists thrown at you along the way.
Ever been stood up? Have a woman show up an hour late with little or no warning? Whine when she isn’t getting her way? Suuuuure you haven’t. Why does this happen?
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Alright, so now you are mad confident, you walk the walk, you talk the talk (a bit), and you are ready to be a lady killer, right? Not so fast bud. Relaxed confidence will get you far – farther than anything else I’m going to teach you – but if you want to really make it work, you need to refine it.
Think of hunting. Going out exuding relaxed confidence is like spraying the field with buck shot. Sure, you’ll hit a lot of targets – it sure beats a slingshot – and you might even bring some down, but it’s not the most effective method.
You want a sniper rifle. You want to focus your efforts to a high degree, and take careful aim. You want to focus your relaxed confidence to make it more powerful.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills
In Junior High, I knocked over a metal bar that guided the cafeteria line. As the divider clanged and echoed throughout the large room, a silence descended, waiting to see whether fight or flight was in order with such a large noise.
Neither was; once everyone realized what had happened, laughter came. Looking back, I now know that much of the laughter was just a release of momentary unwarranted panic – not all of it was really about me. But it sure felt that way. Everyone – everyone – was looking at me cackling. Some were pointing. A few goofs were doing impressions in the back.
And, worst of all, one of the closest tables was full of cute girls from my class. Including the one I really liked. Being closer to the explosive aural pierce, they were amongst the heartiest laughers. The girl I liked was elbowing her friends and whispering while staring and snickering at me.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills
School is in many ways dehumanizing
School is a pretty interesting thing. It’s only really been around for the past 150 years or so – before that, what we now call “schools” were mostly seminaries for theological study. There was the odd medical bend here or there, but it was only a place for the extremely wealthy and well-connected.
Why is that? Most people were farmers or owned their own small businesses, and that could be done any number of ways. You learned the family trade or apprenticed in a craft, and that took care of your intellectual knowledge needs.
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It’s a fact: If you want to score with hot babes, you’ve gotta be the master of your domain. You have to master your social skills.
It’s easy to believe that looks are all-important, but it’s WRONG. As Joseph Matthews, author of “The Art of Approaching Women”, says, “The single biggest, most limiting belief guys have that keeps them from succeeding is the belief that LOOKS MATTER.“
Much more important to women is how well you interact with others — men AND women alike. You can be the best-looking guy in the world, but if you can’t muster anything to say to a group of people, or don’t know how to hold their interest and make them WANT to get to know you, then you’re not going to attract women. Period.
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That doesn’t make much sense, does it? By now you should be getting used to humans not making much sense.
This all comes from social pressure. No one wants to look stupid. Everyone wants to be the coolest guy in the room. And when you stand up in front of people, you give yourself the chance to FAIL.
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Ok, remember in some of my past newsletters I’ve told you that there are no magic bullets – there are no amazing pick-up lines that will get you the girl? Good. I mean it. I really do. Now let’s work on those lines.
Seriously, WHAT you say isn’t half as important as HOW you say it. Still, it can only help if you are PREPARED. When you first start working on your flirting, unless you are Joe Cool, you are going to get NERVOUS. That’s alright, it’s just a fact. Even the best sometimes get nervous in front of a beautiful woman.
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Written by Seduction Tutor in Social Skills, Romance, Flirting, Dating
So many guys are truly clueless when it comes to complimenting a woman. How many of you have said any version of the following:
- “Wow, you’re totally gorgeous. Let me buy you a drink”
- “God broke the mold the day he made you!”
- “You are fine! I gotta take you to dinner sometime girl! Gimme your phone number!”
It’s a sad moment when any man lets rip with any of the above. Can you see how insulting these are? Cool guys never waste their time with “compliments” like these.
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Today I’m going to share a dirty little secret that all attractive men know, but few will admit to.
No one starts out totally comfortable talking to strangers. But in order to become an attractive men and get the women you want, it’s something you have to get used to.
You need the fundamentals before you get the advanced skills.
So you’re still challenged by the idea of talking to perfect strangers, and there’s no easy way to get past it without adding more anxiety, right?
Here’s a low-risk way to get yourself comfortable and get past the idea that strangers are to be feared FOREVER.
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