I learned a lot of things from my last girlfriend. I learned a lot about how men and women really are supposed to interact.
One thing I loved was getting text messages from her. She sent them all the time. They’re like the little love notes of modern times. Short and sweet and you get to read them all day. I’m a romantic like that, what can I say?
One day one really caught my eye, because it told me something I never would have guessed before I spent years learning how to attract and keep women really happy.
And now that I have the skills, sometimes I take it for granted how far I’ve come, and how lucky I am (and of course, how lucky she is).
“Baby, thank you for letting me cook for you last night. It made me so happy to see you eating and looking cute and I love you more than ever now.”
Now I know you’re reading these notes to find out what the latest technique is for getting a great girl attracted to you and having the happy relationships you want, so this one will just blow your mind.
Let her cook for you.
But wait, there’s more! Eat. Eat heartily. Enjoy it. But what else, dude? Surely there’s something else, right?
Yes, there are all sorts of things you can do, that you *need* to do when you are meeting people to let them see that you are a confident, friendly, and sexy man that girls like being with.
But once you learn how to do this, it starts to just flow. You can’t consciously be cool all the time.
The coolest guy is the one who doesn’t give a rat’s ass about being cool. He’s the guy who just loves life and enjoys all the great things in it.
Puppies. Sunsets. Day at the beach.
Or a super-hot girl cooking and serving him dinner while she just looks at him lovingly. The cool guy knows not only how to do things for women, he knows how to let them do things for him. He knows how to appreciate the things they do, and knows how to let them take care of him as well. All women want a strong man to protect them and be their rock.
But they feel shut out, unappreciated, and played for a fool when that same man won’t let them into his world, and won’t let them try to take care of him a little. You know what makes a girl happy? Knowing what she can do to make you happy.
Sounds totally crazy, doesn’t it? But when you can open yourself up and start to appreciate the things that women do that please you, and even better, when you can communicate that to them, they feed on that like kids on Halloween candy. Try it today. Find a girl you like and start telling her about the things that girls do for you that make you happy.
Show her that you are a man who’s so strong and so confident, he can be open and share himself, and let a woman into his world, invite a woman into his world, and appreciate openely what is so special about her.
Who knows? You may just get a great dinner out of it. And if you really know what you’re doing, dessert too.
Sean Newman
This is the strongest article I’ve seen from anyone in a long time. Very, very well done.