How many times have you seen the nice guy lose out to a bad boy? How many times has the player swooped in out of nowhere and ate all the play? Why do women gravitate to him and what is he really?
Can anyone be a bad boy?
Is there a ritual you must go through to become a bad boy so women can recognize you? Personally I have never been to “bad boy” school or even heard of one, but I have been the bad boy many times and have been beat out by bad boys myself.
First let us dispel the myth of what the bad boy is not. In the days of old, the bad boy was the tattooed biker with the Harley and the unshaven 8 o`clock shadow at 6 am in the morning. Today the bad boy is as diverse as the women he is bedding.
Some bad boys you won`t even see coming, and some do their work so under the radar and they are virtually non-existent. The bad boy can be the high powered executive who runs a multi-million dollar business during the day and at night he goes to strip clubs and swinger parties with different girls, often girls new to the “scene”, using his money and influence to break them in.
The bad boy can be the young bartender at a cool eatery that is sleeping with every woman and wife that comes into the place. You never really know who the bad boys are, but the girls do.
The Main Event
The main attraction that women have to the bad boy is that he`s absolutely “naughty”. That is how he is perceived. The bad boy does not have a particular job or ethnic origin. He is that guy that has “naughty” written all over him. He can be bald or short or even broke, but if he is good at putting out “the vibe” then he will increase the size of his harem.
Most women are aware when they meet a bad boy (that is good at it) that he probably has had sex with many women. This turns them on because by this alone they believe he is “experienced” and will please them thoroughly. This is the number one reason women like bad boys and why you are reading this article.
The “vibe” that the bad boy sends out is simple; Sex through direct eye contact accompanied by both non-verbal and verbal communication and flirtation. The bad boy says “sex” without every “saying” sex. Smiling, laughing at her jokes, complimenting her intelligence and flattering her opinions.
The talented bad boy will be patient and always consistent in his behavior, sometimes wearing down prey over months. He has no real commitment other than flattery because he is probably working more women on the side. He is never committed to any of these women, but serves the ones who reward him first and most often.
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So now you think you`re ready for the Bad Boy action do ya?! Can you handle the pace? Can you handle the juggling? Are you a softy a heart? Are you a “one woman man”? Shut up and listen! Like me right now, the bad boy is in charge. He takes charge and when the time is right the bad boy will take what is rightfully his; Pure hedonistic sex! That is the only thing most women want from him anyway and he knows it. No softies allowed in this club gentlemen, sorry.
For you guys who think you can have your cake and eat it too you`re full of crap. You guys fall in love at the drop of a hat. Are you the kind of guy who showers a girl with gifts as soon you meet her? If so, you will never be a bad boy and as soon as you`re done reading this you should go to the SeductionInsider.com home page and type in the search engine “hopeless romantic”.
Earn Your Stripes
Anakin Skywalker did not become Darth Vader overnight boys, he struggled before he realized what he was; a bad boy. So if want to earn your stripes you better toughen up. Get an edge to you. Flirt often with many women until you start understanding the responses.
Then use a girl for sex.
That`s right, you heard me, take a girl home have sex with her and then dump her.
This is a prerequisite for the Bad Boy; being able to get girls and the power to just throw them away.
Sad but true, years ago I had a roommate that would bring married women back to our apartment. When these women would pass out or use the bathroom for any length of time, he would go through their purse looking for cash and steal it. They of course would not discover this until they would leave or when until they got home never really knowing for sure what happened to the cash but always used it as the reason for calling him back.
I am not suggesting you rob chicks that you pick up, but bad boys do that stuff and all that “stuff” turns into a “reputation”.
After a while no one knows what is true or not other than the fact that you are a Bad Boy and that reputation will follow you.
The best way to get your “street cred” is by having sex with an attractive gal that many people know and then dump her.
Women will flock to you because you had the bad boy power.
All the questions in the first paragraph have now been answered and you probably already know if you are a Bad Boy or not. If you are not then at least you have the information on how to do it and what women are seeing in it. Personally, I have about 10 years of the Bad Boy lifestyle left in me. After that, I will do what every retired Bad Boy does; get a good girl.
Jackson Morris,
SeductionInsider.com
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